I believe the reason many women struggle to fulfill their dream of becoming mothers or achieving any dream is that they don't identify the underlying unconscious belief holding them back. They don't go deep enough into their emotional wounds. I know this is true because I went through three rounds of IVF, exhausting all options to become a mother. Despite my strong desire and positive mindset, even with the help of top specialists and advanced medical technology, I couldn't conceive. My eggs were too old, and my chances of becoming a mother seemed impossibly slim.

I recited endless affirmations and maintained a positive outlook, but my dream remained out of reach. That’s when I turned to my own coaching methods. I had helped many people uncover the underlying beliefs stopping them from achieving their dreams, so I asked my coach to help me using the same principles. We discovered an underlying assumption: I believed that if I had a child, my husband would leave me. My body, protecting me from feeling abandoned, had created a polyp in my uterus, physically blocking conception.

This revelation was a breakthrough. I realized my body had been responding to this belief for years, even during my younger attempts to conceive. That boyfriend did leave me, just as my father did. I also found dysfunctional behaviors and actions empowering the belief that I wasn’t enough to be a mother and feared abandonment. I sought healing solutions from shamans, tarot readers, spirit baby guides, theta healers, and doctors. I thought someone else needed to fix me to make me worthy of becoming a mother.